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Most of us have this common fear of facing conflicts.  We would rather sweep it aside, thinking that preserving the peace is more important than talking about what was creating the tension in our relationships.  However, these unresolved conflicts would one day blow out of proportions caused by the tiniest trigger.  And since we are uncertain when the plug will be pulled from our lives, we can either choose to have superficial relationships that avoid resolving conflicts at all costs, or have authentic conversations that could potentially strengthen the relationships to greater heights, or realised that we do not need to further invest our energies on relationships that could not withstand confrontations.